We often say we want “more” in life—more success, more love, more freedom—but if you ask why you want those things, the answer sometimes stops at a vague “because it would make me happy.”
But here’s the truth: sustainable happiness and fulfillment are built on alignment with your core values—the deep, non-negotiable principles that guide your decisions, even when life throws chaos your way.
💎 Why Core Values Matter
Think of your core values as your personal compass.
When they’re clear, you:
- Stop chasing goals that drain you.
- Recognize opportunities that are meant for you.
- Make decisions with less second-guessing.
When they’re unclear, you:
- Say yes to things that don’t serve you.
- Feel restless even after achieving “success.”
- Struggle to know why something feels off.
🔍 How to Find Yours
Grab a journal and answer these prompts:
- Peak Moments – When in your life did you feel the most alive, proud, or fulfilled? What was happening?
- Deal Breakers – What behaviors or situations make you feel instantly drained, angry, or compromised?
- Admired Traits – Who do you deeply admire and why? The qualities you value in others often mirror your own core values.
- Theme Check – Look for repeated patterns or words in your answers. These are your clues.
🛠 Putting Core Values to Work
Once you identify your top 3–5 values, use them as a filter for:
- Work – Does this role or project align with what I stand for?
- Relationships – Does this connection reflect mutual respect and shared priorities?
- Goals – Am I pursuing this for me or for outside approval?
🎯 Your Challenge Today
Write your core values in a visible place—sticky notes on your mirror, a phone lock screen, or a vision board. Let them be the first and last thing you see each day. When life gets noisy, they’ll keep you grounded.
🎶 Spotify Playlist Idea –
Driven by Values
- “This Is Me” – Keala Settle
- “Brave” – Sara Bareilles
- “Roar” – Katy Perry
- “I Am Light” – India.Arie
- “Don’t Stop Believin’” – Journey
- “Rise Up” – Andra Day
- “Hall of Fame” – The Script ft. will.i.am
- “A Million Dreams” – The Greatest Showman Cast
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