What if the first language you ever learned wasn't spoken?
For bestselling author Maria Gallucci, it wasn't.
Growing up as a CODA (Child of Deaf Adults), American Sign Language was her first language. Long before she understood spoken conversations, she was learning to communicate through facial expressions, eye contact, body language, and the kind of presence that goes far beyond words.
That unique upbringing would shape not only her childhood but her life's mission.
In this episode of The Molten Truth, host Zoey Michaels sits down with Maria for a heartfelt conversation about growing up between the Deaf and hearing worlds, the lessons she learned from her parents, and how those experiences inspired her bestselling book, Raised in Silence.
While many people assume this is simply a conversation about Deaf culture, it quickly becomes something much bigger.
It's about connection.
Maria shares stories from her childhood that reveal both the beauty and the challenges of growing up in a Deaf household. She explains how Deaf culture places extraordinary value on visual communication, shared experiences, and making every person feel included. From something as simple as choosing an open floor plan so family members can sign to one another across a room, to advocating for greater accessibility in workplaces and public spaces, Maria illustrates how thoughtful design and intentional communication benefit everyone—not just the Deaf community.
As the conversation unfolds, Zoey and Maria also explore how technology has transformed accessibility, why interpreters are still essential in many situations, and how businesses and leaders can create environments where everyone feels valued.
One of the interview's most memorable moments comes when Maria shares the philosophy that guides both her personal and professional life:
"Just try."
You don't have to be fluent in American Sign Language to make someone feel welcome.
You don't need to have all the right words to show compassion.
Sometimes the greatest gift you can offer another person is simply the willingness to make an effort.
Growing up as a CODA gave Maria a perspective that many of us never have the opportunity to experience. It taught her resilience, empathy, patience, and the importance of meeting people where they are rather than expecting them to meet us halfway.
Those lessons are just as relevant in our homes, workplaces, schools, and communities as they are within Deaf culture.
Whether you're interested in learning more about American Sign Language, curious about the CODA experience, or simply looking for inspiration to become a better communicator, this episode offers powerful reminders that genuine connection begins with understanding.
Because in the end, listening isn't only something we do with our ears.
It's something we do with our hearts.
If this conversation resonates with you, share it with someone who believes that kindness, inclusion, and human connection can make the world a better place. Sometimes all it takes is one person willing to simply try.